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Economic Mediation in Family Law Cases

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Economic Mediation Program Overview

Contested divorce cases are first reviewed by an early settlement panel (ESP). This panel, made up of two experienced divorce attorneys, will recommend a settlement in the case. If the parties do not agree with the recommendation, and there are unresolved financial disputes after ESP review, the court may order them to participate in economic mediation. Economic mediation can help divorcing couples find common ground to divide shared property and determine support.

Economic mediation is a means of resolving financial issues with a trained, impartial third party. It is designed to facilitate settlements in an informal, non-adversarial environment. Mediators do not represent either party and do not offer legal advice. Parties are encouraged to retain their own attorney for the mediation process. If they do not have an attorney, they may choose someone else to accompany them in mediation.

Benefits of mediation include:

  • Confidential proceedings.
  • The opportunity for the parties to create their own, mutually acceptable agreement.
  • Allowing parties to take an active role in resolving their dispute.
  • Saving both parties time and money.

All mediators on the roster of Judiciary-approved mediators have completed 40 hours of mediation training. Mediators on the roster with a domestic violence designation completed training that qualifies them to conduct Domestic Violence Economic Mediation. Mediators are attorneys and other experienced professionals in the financial or mental health fields.

After the first two hours, the mediation costs are paid by the parties.

The first two hours of mediation are free. These two hours include the time it takes for the mediator to prepare for the first session and for the session itself. Travel time is not included in the first two hours and mediators are not allowed to charge for their travel.

During the mediation, the mediator will let you know when the two free hours have been reached. Either party can then choose to end the mediation. If the mediation goes beyond the free two hours, the court decides the amount each party will be responsible for to cover the mediator’s fee.

Economic Mediation and Final Restraining Orders

Generally, the law prohibits mediation when there is an active final restraining order between the parties. The Domestic Violence Economic Mediation Program allows mediation only if the protected party (the person with the restraining order) requests it. The protected party must consent to amending the final restraining order to allow mediation. The protected party may terminate the mediation process at any time and for any reason. 

The protected party must initiate the request for economic mediation.

The protected party must

  1. Read and understand the Frequently Asked Questions for Protected Parties 
  2. Meet with a domestic violence advocate or trained court staff; and
  3. Complete and file a certification which is a formal request to the court that the case be referred to economic mediation. It is also a request for the court to amend the Final Restraining Order to permit economic mediation. Filing the certification does not guarantee that the court will refer the case to the program.

After reviewing the certification and confirming that the protected party consents to economic mediation, the court will ask the other party if they agree to mediation. If they do not agree, they will be asked to provide an explanation. The court may still decide to refer the case to economic mediation.

If the court refers a case to economic mediation, both parties will work separately with court staff to agree on the selection of a mediator. If they are unable to agree, the court will assign one.

If there is a final restraining order, the parties will not be in the same room for mediation.

Domestic violence economic mediation takes place in a secure room at the courthouse where security is on site, or it may take place on-line using videoconferencing. Domestic violence economic mediation will not be conducted at the mediator’s office or any other location.

The mediator assigned to the case will use a process called “shuttle diplomacy” to facilitate the mediation. This means that each party will be in separate rooms the entire time, and the mediator will communicate with them separately. This eliminates direct communication between the parties. Similarly, if the mediation is conducted online, the parties will be in separate virtual meeting rooms and will not have any contact.

Only mediators who completed domestic violence mediation training are eligible to mediate cases where there is a restraining order between the parties.

The protected party can choose to end mediation at any time.

This program was created to give victims of domestic violence the same opportunity to resolve their case as litigants who do not have a restraining order. If the protected party does not feel comfortable about moving forward with economic mediation, they can let their attorney know. If they do not have an attorney, they can contact the court. This will not be held against them in any way.

The mediator cannot address other issues such as custody or parenting time.

This is prohibited by law and violates provisions of the Domestic Violence Economic Mediation program.

Read the Frequently Asked Questions for Protected Parties and Frequently Asked Questions for Non-Protected Parties for more details about the program.

Mediators by County

If you want to become a mediator, you need to apply. Current mediators can change or update their roster status.

Mediators must complete the Economic Mediation Results Form after the mediation session.     

Mediators for Economic Aspects of Family Law

Mediator Sort descending Qualifications Hourly Rate
Deborah E. Nelson, Esq.
Budd Larner, P.C.
150 John F. Kennedy Parkway
Short Hills, NJ 07078
Fax: (973) 379-7734
$250.00
Maryann L. Nergaard
Daly & Associates, LLC
16 South Street
Morristown, NJ 07960
Fax: (973) 933-0099
$495.00
Katherine G. Newcomer, Esq.
Katherine Newcomer, Esq. Mediation Services, LLC
PO Box 247
Pottersville, NJ 07979
Fax: (908) 439-9140

Ms. Newcomer is a retired attorney whose practice is confined to mediation. She has extensive experience with high conflict mediations. She has been on the Roster for Custodial Mediation for the Superior Court of NJ, Vicinage XIII, since 2004. Her settlement rate for her numerous mediations has been very high. She has been on the Economic Mediation Roster since 2010.

Qualified Mentor
$220.00
Laurie L. Newmark, Esq.
Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark
100 South Jefferson Road, Suite 200
Whippany, NJ 07981
Fax: (973) 539-4151
$430.00
Lynn F. Newsome, Esq.
200 Campus Drive, Suite 205
Florham Park, NJ 07932
Fax: (973) 692-6377
$450.00
Elaine H. Nissen, Esq.
265 Beverly Hills Road
Fort Lee, NJ 07024
Fax: (201) 461-9070
$275.00
Joseph Nitti, Esq.
Nitti & Nitti, PC
145 EAGLE ROCK AVE
ROSELAND, NJ 07068
Fax: (973) 226-1649
$325.00
Lynn B. Norcia, Esq.
Berse Law
217 Elmer St
Westfield, NJ 07090
Fax: (855) 326-5292

An attorney for over 30 years and have experience in all family docket types. I am retired from my position as mediator and Domestic Violence Hearing Officer of the NJ Superior Court, having mediated over 1,000 cases. I have been appointed as a Guardian Ad Litem and Parenting Coordinator.

Approved for DV Cases
$300.00
Anna R. Noris, Esq.
Ledesma, Diaz, Lopez & Noris, P.C.
6120 Bergenline Ave
West New York, NJ 07093
Fax: (201) 867-3181
Approved for DV Cases
$275.00
Richard A. Norris, Esq.
Norris, McLaughlin & Marcus
721 Route 202-206, Suite 200
Bridgewater, NJ 08807
Fax: (908) 722-0755
$375.00
Gianna Novelli
9 North Main Street, 2nd Floor
Manahawkin, NJ 08050
Celine Y. November, Esq.
November & Nunnink, L.L.C.
16-00 Rpute 208 South, Suite 201
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
Fax: (201) 612-1010
$350.00
Carmela L. Novi, Esq.
21 Main Street, Court Plaza South, West Wing, Suite 354
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Fax: (201) 880-9720
$470.00
Laura A. Nunnink, Esq.
November & Nunnink
16-00 Route 208 South, Suite 201
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
Fax: (201) 612-1010

Certified matrimonial law attorney.

$395.00
Andrea W. O'Brien, Esq.
Lomurro, Davison, Eastman & Munoz, P.A.
100 Willow Brook Road, Building 1
Freehold, NJ 07728
Fax: (732) 780-9723
$405.00
Edward J. O'Donnell, Esq.
200 Campus Drive, Suite 205
Florham Park, NJ 07932
Fax: (973) 692-6377
$450.00
Ann Marie O'Hare, CPA
26 Main Street, Suite J
Toms River, NJ 08753
Fax: (732) 240-4296
$260.00
Stephanie O'Neill, Esq.
Garcia Law, LLC
500 Route 17, Suite 200
Hasbrouck Height, NJ 07604
$300.00
David T. O'Sullivan, Esq.
119 Washington Street
Morristown, NJ 07960
Fax: (973) 998-7997
$375.00
Darren C. O'Toole, Esq.
1312 Atlantic Avenue
Manasquan, NJ 08736
Fax: (855) 556-0012
$350.00