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Economic Mediation in Family Law Cases

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Economic Mediation Program Overview

Contested divorce cases are first reviewed by an early settlement panel (ESP). This panel, made up of two experienced divorce attorneys, will recommend a settlement in the case. If the parties do not agree with the recommendation, and there are unresolved financial disputes after ESP review, the court may order them to participate in economic mediation. Economic mediation can help divorcing couples find common ground to divide shared property and determine support.

Economic mediation is a means of resolving financial issues with a trained, impartial third party. It is designed to facilitate settlements in an informal, non-adversarial environment. Mediators do not represent either party and do not offer legal advice. Parties are encouraged to retain their own attorney for the mediation process. If they do not have an attorney, they may choose someone else to accompany them in mediation.

Benefits of mediation include:

  • Confidential proceedings.
  • The opportunity for the parties to create their own, mutually acceptable agreement.
  • Allowing parties to take an active role in resolving their dispute.
  • Saving both parties time and money.

All mediators on the roster of Judiciary-approved mediators have completed 40 hours of mediation training. Mediators on the roster with a domestic violence designation completed training that qualifies them to conduct Domestic Violence Economic Mediation. Mediators are attorneys and other experienced professionals in the financial or mental health fields.

After the first two hours, the mediation costs are paid by the parties.

The first two hours of mediation are free. These two hours include the time it takes for the mediator to prepare for the first session and for the session itself. Travel time is not included in the first two hours and mediators are not allowed to charge for their travel.

During the mediation, the mediator will let you know when the two free hours have been reached. Either party can then choose to end the mediation. If the mediation goes beyond the free two hours, the court decides the amount each party will be responsible for to cover the mediator’s fee.

Economic Mediation and Final Restraining Orders

Generally, the law prohibits mediation when there is an active final restraining order between the parties. The Domestic Violence Economic Mediation Program allows mediation only if the protected party (the person with the restraining order) requests it. The protected party must consent to amending the final restraining order to allow mediation. The protected party may terminate the mediation process at any time and for any reason. 

The protected party must initiate the request for economic mediation.

The protected party must

  1. Read and understand the Frequently Asked Questions for Protected Parties 
  2. Meet with a domestic violence advocate or trained court staff; and
  3. Complete and file a certification which is a formal request to the court that the case be referred to economic mediation. It is also a request for the court to amend the Final Restraining Order to permit economic mediation. Filing the certification does not guarantee that the court will refer the case to the program.

After reviewing the certification and confirming that the protected party consents to economic mediation, the court will ask the other party if they agree to mediation. If they do not agree, they will be asked to provide an explanation. The court may still decide to refer the case to economic mediation.

If the court refers a case to economic mediation, both parties will work separately with court staff to agree on the selection of a mediator. If they are unable to agree, the court will assign one.

If there is a final restraining order, the parties will not be in the same room for mediation.

Domestic violence economic mediation takes place in a secure room at the courthouse where security is on site, or it may take place on-line using videoconferencing. Domestic violence economic mediation will not be conducted at the mediator’s office or any other location.

The mediator assigned to the case will use a process called “shuttle diplomacy” to facilitate the mediation. This means that each party will be in separate rooms the entire time, and the mediator will communicate with them separately. This eliminates direct communication between the parties. Similarly, if the mediation is conducted online, the parties will be in separate virtual meeting rooms and will not have any contact.

Only mediators who completed domestic violence mediation training are eligible to mediate cases where there is a restraining order between the parties.

The protected party can choose to end mediation at any time.

This program was created to give victims of domestic violence the same opportunity to resolve their case as litigants who do not have a restraining order. If the protected party does not feel comfortable about moving forward with economic mediation, they can let their attorney know. If they do not have an attorney, they can contact the court. This will not be held against them in any way.

The mediator cannot address other issues such as custody or parenting time.

This is prohibited by law and violates provisions of the Domestic Violence Economic Mediation program.

Read the Frequently Asked Questions for Protected Parties and Frequently Asked Questions for Non-Protected Parties for more details about the program.

Mediators by County

If you want to become a mediator, you need to apply. Current mediators can change or update their roster status.

Mediators must complete the Economic Mediation Results Form after the mediation session.     

Mediators for Economic Aspects of Family Law

Mediator Qualifications Hourly Rate
Thomas Sidoti, Esq.
Sidoti Law Firm, LLC
86 Hudson Street
Hoboken, NJ 07030
Fax: (201) 462-9501
$195.00
Marcia DePolo, Esq.
Caruso Smith Picini, P.C.
60 Route 46 East
Fairfield, NJ 07004
Fax: (973) 667-1200
$200.00
Carl J. Soranno, Esq.
Brach Eichler LLC
101 Eisenhower Parkway
Roseland, NJ 07068
Fax: (973) 618-5527

As a seasoned litigator and Chair of the Family Law Practice at Brach Eichler LLC, I have resolved numerous disputes through arbitration, mediation, early settlement & blue-ribbon panels. I have negotiated many settlement agreements, marital separation agreements, prenuptial and post-nuptial agreements & have significant experience in alternative dispute resolution in various forums.

$475.00
Christopher R. Cavalli, Esq.
Callagy Law, P.C.
Mack-Cali Centre II, 650 From Road, Suite 565
Paramus, NJ 07562
Fax: (201) 549-6318
$395.00
Allen J. Scazafabo Jr., Esq.
Riker Danzig Scherer Hyland Perretti, LLP
One Speedwell Avenue
Morristown, NJ 07962
Fax: (973) 451-8757
$385.00
Nicole T. Donoian-Pody, Esq.
Charny Karpousis Altieri & Donoian PA
401 Route 73 North, Building 10, 10 Lake Executive Center, Suite 202
Marlton, NJ 08053
Fax: (856) 505-1710
$325.00
Scott W. Orr, Esq.
Torchin Martel Orr Law LLC
95 N. State Rt. 17, Suite 109
Paramus, NJ 07652
Fax: (201) 839-4341

As peer selected "top mediator" with a JD/MBA and an ability to connect, Scott assists couples through in all facets of their matter whether economic (including equitable distribtution or assets/debts and/or support) and custody, always keeping the parties focused on the best interests of the children.

Qualified Mentor
$425.00
Ralph Tawil, Esq.
1062 West Broadway
West Long Branch, NJ 07764
Fax: (732) 229-2121
$300.00
Kenneth J. Gilmore
NJ Divorce Mediation and Financial Solutions
23 Center Street
Chatham, NJ 07928
Fax: (973) 507-0709
$205.00
Joanna D. Brick, Esq.
Brick Law, LLC
16-00 State Route 208 South, Suite 302
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
Fax: (201) 791-5556

I have been practicing law for nearly 20 years. I am passionate about the law and have represented hundreds of litigants. I have volunteered as a Morris and Essex County Early Settlement Panelist.

$275.00
Elsie Gonzalez
Cipriano Law Offices, PC
175 Fairfield Ave Suite 4 C/D
West Caldwell, NJ 07006
Fax: (973) 403-8610
$375.00
Gina-Marie Izzo, Esq.
Weinberger Divorce & Family Law Group
83 South Street, Suite 201
Freehold, NJ 07728
Fax: (732) 414-2770

As a Kings County District Attorney, I handled cases involving domestic violence and crimes against children cases. Those cases had a substantial impact on my career and I have now devoted my practice to matrimonial and family related matters, including but not limited to divorce, custody/visitation, child/spousal support, domestic violence, post-judgement matters, pre/post nuptial agreements.

$425.00
April Katz Israeli, Esq.
Goodgold, Feinberg, and Bennett, LLC
33 Bleeker Street, Suite 210
Millburn, NJ 07041
Fax: (973) 544-0801

I have over 25 years of experience in divorce and family law. I have negotiated and settled thousands of cases involving issues of spousal/child support, custody, parenting time, relocation, equitable distribution, and payment of attorney/expert fees. I stay current on all relevant laws/statutes that impact this area of law.

$350.00
Megan E. Smith, Esq.
Offit Kurman, P.A.
1801 Markit Street, Ten Penn Center, Suite 2300
Philadelphia, PA 19103
Fax: (267) 338-1335

I have over 12 years of experience in all aspects of family law, practicing exclusively in family law since 2006. I have clerked as a family law clerk. I have extensive experience in the negotiation of equitable distribution, assets, alimony, child support & have argued numerous matters by way of motions, plenary hearings & trials. I continue to dedicate my practice exclusively to all family law.

$375.00
DePolo Marcia, Esq.
Caruso Smith Picini, P.C.
60 Route 46 East
Fairfield, NJ 07004
Fax: (973) 667-1200
$200.00
Chris Ann Wright, Esq.
Lyons & Associates, PC
76 East Main Street, 2nd Floor
Somerville, NJ 08876
Fax: (908) 515-7711

I have been practicing both custody and economic mediation since 1998 and have extensive experience with clients in financial distress. I strive to make the divorce process as stress free as possible so as to assist people in moving on with their lives.

Approved for DV Cases
$355.00
John S. Eory, Esq.
Stark and Stark, P.A.
993 Lenox Drive
Lawrenceville, NJ 08648
Fax: (609) 896-0629
Approved for DV Cases
$350.00
Staey L. Miller, Esq.
Atkins, Tafuri, Minassian, D'Amato, Beane & Miller
887 Kinderkamack Road
River Edge, NJ 07661
Fax: (201) 967-8323

I have exclusively practiced as a Family Law Attorney for over 14 years. I have negotiated and settled innumerable cases involving issues of spousal/child support, custody, parenting time, relocation, equitable distribution, including high net worth individuals and business owners. I stay current on all relevant laws/statutes that impact these areas of law.

$425.00
Jensen Annmarie, Esq.
Malamut & Associates
457 Haddonfield Road, Suite 500
Cherry Hill, NJ 08033
Fax: (856) 424-2032
$350.00
Jhanice V. Domingo, Esq.
Pashman Stein Walder Hayden, P.C.
Court Plaza South, East Wing, 21 Main Street, Suite 200E
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Fax: (201) 488-5556

In-Person + Virtual Mediation Available. Jhanice is a Partner at Pashman Stein and member of the NJ Supreme Court Family Practice Committee, Arbitration Committee, FD&FV Sub-Committee and Domestic Violence Working Group. She is an experienced family law litigator, court-appointed/private mediator, and serves as an ESP panelist/economic mediator for various counties in north/south/central NJ.

$350.00