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Economic Mediation in Family Law Cases

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Economic Mediation Program Overview

Contested divorce cases are first reviewed by an early settlement panel (ESP). This panel, made up of two experienced divorce attorneys, will recommend a settlement in the case. If the parties do not agree with the recommendation, and there are unresolved financial disputes after ESP review, the court may order them to participate in economic mediation. Economic mediation can help divorcing couples find common ground to divide shared property and determine support.

Economic mediation is a means of resolving financial issues with a trained, impartial third party. It is designed to facilitate settlements in an informal, non-adversarial environment. Mediators do not represent either party and do not offer legal advice. Parties are encouraged to retain their own attorney for the mediation process. If they do not have an attorney, they may choose someone else to accompany them in mediation.

Benefits of mediation include:

  • Confidential proceedings.
  • The opportunity for the parties to create their own, mutually acceptable agreement.
  • Allowing parties to take an active role in resolving their dispute.
  • Saving both parties time and money.

All mediators on the roster of Judiciary-approved mediators have completed 40 hours of mediation training. Mediators on the roster with a domestic violence designation completed training that qualifies them to conduct Domestic Violence Economic Mediation. Mediators are attorneys and other experienced professionals in the financial or mental health fields.

After the first two hours, the mediation costs are paid by the parties.

The first two hours of mediation are free. These two hours include the time it takes for the mediator to prepare for the first session and for the session itself. Travel time is not included in the first two hours and mediators are not allowed to charge for their travel.

During the mediation, the mediator will let you know when the two free hours have been reached. Either party can then choose to end the mediation. If the mediation goes beyond the free two hours, the court decides the amount each party will be responsible for to cover the mediator’s fee.

Economic Mediation and Final Restraining Orders

Generally, the law prohibits mediation when there is an active final restraining order between the parties. The Domestic Violence Economic Mediation Program allows mediation only if the protected party (the person with the restraining order) requests it. The protected party must consent to amending the final restraining order to allow mediation. The protected party may terminate the mediation process at any time and for any reason. 

The protected party must initiate the request for economic mediation.

The protected party must

  1. Read and understand the Frequently Asked Questions for Protected Parties 
  2. Meet with a domestic violence advocate or trained court staff; and
  3. Complete and file a certification which is a formal request to the court that the case be referred to economic mediation. It is also a request for the court to amend the Final Restraining Order to permit economic mediation. Filing the certification does not guarantee that the court will refer the case to the program.

After reviewing the certification and confirming that the protected party consents to economic mediation, the court will ask the other party if they agree to mediation. If they do not agree, they will be asked to provide an explanation. The court may still decide to refer the case to economic mediation.

If the court refers a case to economic mediation, both parties will work separately with court staff to agree on the selection of a mediator. If they are unable to agree, the court will assign one.

If there is a final restraining order, the parties will not be in the same room for mediation.

Domestic violence economic mediation takes place in a secure room at the courthouse where security is on site, or it may take place on-line using videoconferencing. Domestic violence economic mediation will not be conducted at the mediator’s office or any other location.

The mediator assigned to the case will use a process called “shuttle diplomacy” to facilitate the mediation. This means that each party will be in separate rooms the entire time, and the mediator will communicate with them separately. This eliminates direct communication between the parties. Similarly, if the mediation is conducted online, the parties will be in separate virtual meeting rooms and will not have any contact.

Only mediators who completed domestic violence mediation training are eligible to mediate cases where there is a restraining order between the parties.

The protected party can choose to end mediation at any time.

This program was created to give victims of domestic violence the same opportunity to resolve their case as litigants who do not have a restraining order. If the protected party does not feel comfortable about moving forward with economic mediation, they can let their attorney know. If they do not have an attorney, they can contact the court. This will not be held against them in any way.

The mediator cannot address other issues such as custody or parenting time.

This is prohibited by law and violates provisions of the Domestic Violence Economic Mediation program.

Read the Frequently Asked Questions for Protected Parties and Frequently Asked Questions for Non-Protected Parties for more details about the program.

Mediators by County

If you want to become a mediator, you need to apply. Current mediators can change or update their roster status.

Mediators must complete the Economic Mediation Results Form after the mediation session.     

Mediators for Economic Aspects of Family Law

Mediator Qualifications Hourly Rate
Bart W. Lombardo, Esq.
Cipriano Law Offices
175 Fairfield Ave, Suite 4C/D
West Caldwell, NJ 07006
Fax: (973) 403-8610
$350.00
Marianne Zembryski, Esq.
Marianne Zembryski, LLC
67 Walnut Avenue, Suite 109
Clark, NJ 07066
Fax: (732) 340-1816
$350.00
Joel P. Bogorad, Esq.
Weinberg Lieberman & Co
155 Passaic Avenue, Suite 370
Fairfield, NJ 07004
Fax: (973) 403-1653

Mr. Bogorad practices as a forensic account with the majority of his time spent on NJ family law matters. He has experience in all different types of economic claims including equitable distribution, spousal/child support, business valuation, lost profits, and business/partnership disputes.

$350.00
Robyn E. Ross, Esq
Ross & Calandrillo
200 Sheffield Street, Suite 312
Mountainside, NJ 07092
Fax: (908) 543-4801
Approved for DV Cases
$350.00
Rosalyn A. Metzger, Esq.
502 Route 22
Lebanon, NJ 08833
$350.00
Robert S. Dorkin, Esq.
Schwartz, Barkin & Mitchell
1110 Springfield Road
Union, NJ 07083
Fax: (908) 855-9645

I have been practicing Family Law on a full time basis since 1982, all in Union County. I have been an Early Settlement Panelist in Union County since 1987 and in Essex County since 1985. I have been appointed as a Blue Ribbon Panelist on a number of occasions. I have mediated and arbitrated divorce cases as well. I have been appointed as a Guardian ad Litem in divorce matters.

$325.00
Jessica S. Swenson, Esq.
Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, LLC
100 South Jefferson Road, Suite 200
Whippany, NJ 07981
Fax: (973) 539-4151
$380.00
Maryann J. Rabkin, Esq.
Rabkin Law Offices, P.C.
1415 Route 70 East, Suite 202
Cherry Hill, NJ 08034
Fax: (856) 216-1554
$375.00
James A. Farber, JSC
Paris P. Eliades Law Firm LLC
48 Sparta Avenue
Sparta, NJ 07871
Fax: (973) 729-3809
Approved for DV Cases
$425.00
Drew A. Molotsky, Esq.
Adinolfi & Packman, PA
4 Kings Highway East
Haddonfield, NJ 08033
Fax: (856) 428-8779

I've been participating in family mediation for the entirety of my 27 year career, including extensive use of both private & court-ordered mediation programs. I am a Certified Matrimonial Law Attorney, MESP panelist in 3 counties for more than 15 years, former Ethics Committee member & bring a high level of experience in all forms of negotiation & litigation to my recent mediation training.

$350.00
Robert E. Goldstein, Esq.
Drescher & Cheslow, P.A.
610 Bridge Plaza Drive
Manalapan, NJ 07726
Fax: (732) 972-0038
$375.00
Megha R. Thakkar, Esq.
Hill Wallack LLP
21 Roszel Road
Princeton, NJ 08854
Fax: (609) 452-1888
$395.00
Glenn P. Milgraum, Esq.
Glenn Milgraum PC
59 Chestnut Court
Cedar Grove, NJ 07009
Fax: (973) 812-2648

I have been litigating and resolving "family" and "civil" disputes for over 35 years in NJ and NY. I have achieved the designation of APM (Accredited Professional Mediator) from NJAPM (New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators). Most mediations are now held virtually.

Approved for DV Cases
$360.00
Susan L. Wright, MBA
Kratosa Divorce Advisors, LLC
PO Box 710
Gladstone, NJ 07934

Financial Neutral and Family/Divorce Mediator

$275.00
John Nachlinger, Esq.
Netsquire
1161 Broad Street, Suite 216
Shrewsbury, NJ 07702
Fax: (732) 909-2701

I devote the majority of my practice to mediation. I pride myself on not just helping litigants resolve their disputes but doing it as quickly as possible. I conduct mediation virtually to ensure the cost to litigants is minimized.

$400.00
Alan Domers, Esq.
Domers, Bonanassa & Hynes, P.C.
601 Route 73 North, 4 Greentree Center, Suite 105
Marlton, NJ 08053
Fax: (856) 596-8619
$300.00
Ashley Vallillo Manzi, Esq.
Manzi Epstein Lomurro & DeCataldo
546 Valley Road, Suite 201
Montclair, NJ 07043
$475.00
Taryn R. Zimmerman, Esq.
Detommaso Law Group. LLC
58 Mount Bethel Road
warren, NJ 07059
Fax: (908) 595-0343

I am a member of the New Jersey and New York Bars and practice exclusively in the area of family and matrimonial law. I represent clients in all stages of family law litigation and my practice involves all aspects of family law. In addition to my matrimonial practice, I have experience as court-appointed Special Master and guardian ad litem. I also volunteer as an EP Panelist in Somerset County.

$350.00
Patricia Riggio Bell, MBA
Patricia R. Bell LLC
14 Euclid Avenue, Unit 201
Summit, NJ 07901
Fax: (973) 761-4171
$300.00
Nancy Murray Horta, Esq.
The Law Office of Nancy Murray Horta, LLC
The Centennial Building, 58-60 Main Street, 1-A
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Fax: (201) 308-8260

I was admitted to practice law in NJ in 2010 and have ever since concentrated my practice in the area of Matrimonial and Family Law. I completed a Clerkship for the Hon. William R. DeLorenzo, Jr., J.S.C. I am a member of the Bergen County and NJ State Bar Associations. In 2014 I opened my own practice in Bergen County where I focus on Family Law and related matters.

$350.00