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Economic Mediation in Family Law Cases

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Economic Mediation Program Overview

Contested divorce cases are first reviewed by an early settlement panel (ESP). This panel, made up of two experienced divorce attorneys, will recommend a settlement in the case. If the parties do not agree with the recommendation, and there are unresolved financial disputes after ESP review, the court may order them to participate in economic mediation. Economic mediation can help divorcing couples find common ground to divide shared property and determine support.

Economic mediation is a means of resolving financial issues with a trained, impartial third party. It is designed to facilitate settlements in an informal, non-adversarial environment. Mediators do not represent either party and do not offer legal advice. Parties are encouraged to retain their own attorney for the mediation process. If they do not have an attorney, they may choose someone else to accompany them in mediation.

Benefits of mediation include:

  • Confidential proceedings.
  • The opportunity for the parties to create their own, mutually acceptable agreement.
  • Allowing parties to take an active role in resolving their dispute.
  • Saving both parties time and money.

All mediators on the roster of Judiciary-approved mediators have completed 40 hours of mediation training. Mediators on the roster with a domestic violence designation completed training that qualifies them to conduct Domestic Violence Economic Mediation. Mediators are attorneys and other experienced professionals in the financial or mental health fields.

After the first two hours, the mediation costs are paid by the parties.

The first two hours of mediation are free. These two hours include the time it takes for the mediator to prepare for the first session and for the session itself. Travel time is not included in the first two hours and mediators are not allowed to charge for their travel.

During the mediation, the mediator will let you know when the two free hours have been reached. Either party can then choose to end the mediation. If the mediation goes beyond the free two hours, the court decides the amount each party will be responsible for to cover the mediator’s fee.

Economic Mediation and Final Restraining Orders

Generally, the law prohibits mediation when there is an active final restraining order between the parties. The Domestic Violence Economic Mediation Program allows mediation only if the protected party (the person with the restraining order) requests it. The protected party must consent to amending the final restraining order to allow mediation. The protected party may terminate the mediation process at any time and for any reason. 

The protected party must initiate the request for economic mediation.

The protected party must

  1. Read and understand the Frequently Asked Questions for Protected Parties 
  2. Meet with a domestic violence advocate or trained court staff; and
  3. Complete and file a certification which is a formal request to the court that the case be referred to economic mediation. It is also a request for the court to amend the Final Restraining Order to permit economic mediation. Filing the certification does not guarantee that the court will refer the case to the program.

After reviewing the certification and confirming that the protected party consents to economic mediation, the court will ask the other party if they agree to mediation. If they do not agree, they will be asked to provide an explanation. The court may still decide to refer the case to economic mediation.

If the court refers a case to economic mediation, both parties will work separately with court staff to agree on the selection of a mediator. If they are unable to agree, the court will assign one.

If there is a final restraining order, the parties will not be in the same room for mediation.

Domestic violence economic mediation takes place in a secure room at the courthouse where security is on site, or it may take place on-line using videoconferencing. Domestic violence economic mediation will not be conducted at the mediator’s office or any other location.

The mediator assigned to the case will use a process called “shuttle diplomacy” to facilitate the mediation. This means that each party will be in separate rooms the entire time, and the mediator will communicate with them separately. This eliminates direct communication between the parties. Similarly, if the mediation is conducted online, the parties will be in separate virtual meeting rooms and will not have any contact.

Only mediators who completed domestic violence mediation training are eligible to mediate cases where there is a restraining order between the parties.

The protected party can choose to end mediation at any time.

This program was created to give victims of domestic violence the same opportunity to resolve their case as litigants who do not have a restraining order. If the protected party does not feel comfortable about moving forward with economic mediation, they can let their attorney know. If they do not have an attorney, they can contact the court. This will not be held against them in any way.

The mediator cannot address other issues such as custody or parenting time.

This is prohibited by law and violates provisions of the Domestic Violence Economic Mediation program.

Read the Frequently Asked Questions for Protected Parties and Frequently Asked Questions for Non-Protected Parties for more details about the program.

Mediators by County

If you want to become a mediator, you need to apply. Current mediators can change or update their roster status.

Mediators must complete the Economic Mediation Results Form after the mediation session.     

Mediators for Economic Aspects of Family Law

Mediator Qualifications Hourly Rate
Alexander M. Carlin, Esq.
The Carlin Law Group, LLC
125 Half Mile Road, Suite 200
Red Bank, NJ 07701
Fax: (973) 513-6163
$250.00
Patricia E. Carney, Esq.
Law Offices of Patricia E. Carney, LLC
1099 Mount Kemble Avenue
Morristown, NJ 07960
Fax: (973) 425-9005
$85.00
Ada H. Carro, Esq.
509 Third Avenue
Alpha, NJ 08865
Fax: (908) 454-3777
$285.00
Charles E. Carro, Esq.
509 Third Avenue
Alpha, NJ 08865
Fax: (908) 454-3777
$250.00
Stephen C. Carton, Esq.
Lomurro, Davison, Eastman & Munoz, P.A.
Monmouth Executive Center, 100 Willow Brook Road-Building 1
Freehold, NJ 07728
Fax: (732) 780-9723
$350.00
Alexander H. Carver, Esq.
Harwood Lloyd, LLC
130 Main Street
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Fax: (201) 487-4758
$400.00
Debra J. Cavalieri, Esq.
Debra J. Cavalieri, Attorney at Law
112 Johnson Avenue
Turnersville, NJ 08012
Fax: (856) 228-6292
$300.00
Vincent P. Celli APM, Esq.
Simon OBrien & Knapp, P.C.
1719 State Route 10, Suite 102
Parsippany, NJ 07054
Fax: (973) 538-2265

I am senior partner of Celli Schlossberg DeMeo & Giusti P.C. in Parsippany, NJ with 45 years of practice. I am a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Attorneys, an AAML-trained Arbitrator, Accredited by NJ Assoc of Professional Mediators, a mediator mentor, a domestic violence mediator and a member of the MESP and Blue Ribbon Panels in Morris & Sussex counties.

Approved for DV Cases
Qualified Mentor
$400.00
Patrick J. Cerillo, Esq.
Patrick J. Cerillo, LLC
4 Walter Foran Boulevard, Suite 402
Flemington, NJ 08822
Fax: (908) 284-0915

Mr. Cerillo has an active law practice in family law and real estate and transactional work, including buying and selling real estate, small businesses, liquor licenses and other business properties. He has been in private practice for over 35 years. He is a regular member of the Hunterdon County Early Settlement Panel.

$350.00
Robert J. Chalfin, Esq.
45 Bridge Street
Metuchen, NJ 08840
Fax: (732) 321-1066

I am an Attorney and CPA. I have bought and sold many businesses and have been a member of the adjunct faculty at Wharton Business School since 1990; I teach courses on Business Acquisition and Real Estate Entrepreneurship to MBA candidates. My firm has been involved in over one thousand cases as an expert, consultant or court-appointed expert, receiver, fiscal agent, mediator.

$520.00
Judith S. Charny, Esq.
Charny, Charny & Karpousis, P.A.
1300 Route 73, Suite 211
Mt. Laurel, NJ 08054
Fax: (856) 505-1710
$325.00
Seymour Chase, Esq.
One Atlantic Street, Justice Plaza
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Fax: (201) 343-2658
$300.00
Cary B. Cheifetz, Esq.
Ceconi & Cheifetz, LLC
311 Springfield Avenue, Suite 105
Summit, NJ 07901
Fax: (908) 273-4797
Qualified Mentor
$525.00
Whitney R. Chelnik, Esq.
Gomperts Penza & McDermott, LLC
959 South Springfield Avenue
Springfield, NJ 07081
Fax: (973) 258-1556
Approved for DV Cases
$350.00
Lori Cieckiewicz, Esq.
Weiner Law Group, LLP
79 Hudson Street, Suite 502
Hoboken, NJ 07030
Fax: (551) 430-7080

I have over 23 years experience as a Family Law Attorney. I have extensive experience as a mediator helping families resolve their disputes and moving forward with their lives. I help parents as a Parent Coordinator. I have offices in Jersey City, Parsippany, Red Bank, Bridgewater and East Hanover .I will also meet at a location that is convenient for all parties or conduct mediation by Zoom.

Approved for DV Cases
$400.00
Jeffrey P. Cillo, Esq.
7-D Willow
Toms River, NJ 08757
Fax: (732) 505-2052
$150.00
Rita T. Jerejian
Townsend, Tomaio & Nemark, L.L.C.
100 S. Jefferson Road, Suite 200
Whippany, NJ 07981
Fax: (973) 539-4151

33 years' experience as a matrimonial law attorney at the Superior Court and Appellate Court levels. Ms. Jerejian earned the designation by the N.J. Supreme Court as a Certified Matrimonial Law Attorney. She serves as a Panel Chair for the Bergen County Mandatory Early Settlement Program.

$325.00
Melissa Cipriano, Esq.
Cipriano Law Offices, P.C.
175 Fairfield Avenue, Suite 4 C/D
West Caldwell, NJ 07006
Fax: (973) 403-8610
Approved for DV Cases
Qualified Mentor
$400.00
James N. Citta, Esq.
Denoia Tandasco & Germann
501 Main Street
Toms River, NJ 08753
Fax: (732) 736-1919
$400.00
John E. Clancy, Esq.
Townsend Tomaio & Newmark, LLC
100 South Jefferson Road
Whippany, NJ 07981
Fax: (973) 539-4151

I am interested in helping your family reach a timely and cost-effective settlement, while reducing the stress & negative effects on your family inherent in litigation. The impact of litigation will last far longer than your divorce. My entire career has been spent litigating and mediating family law cases throughout Northern NJ.

$380.00